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Monday, September 26, 2011

Monday Spotlight: Laura Kaye

The Secret Fantasy Life of Women


Every study confirms it: normal, healthy women fantasize about sex. A lot. And why not? It’s low-pressure, safe, guilt-free and private, and allows you to imagine doing things or behaving in ways your rational, social self might not feel comfortable attempting.

It’s perfect timing for a little conversation about women’s sexual fantasies—this Friday, my debut erotic romance novella, Just Gotta Say, releases, and centers around a woman getting to live out one of her hottest, longest-held secret fantasies. Having sex with multiple men is consistently on women’s top-ten list of sexual fantasies. This fantasy thrills women because it puts them at the center of not just one, but several men’s attention and desire. What could make you feel more wanted and adored and desirable than bringing multiple men to their knees—or to mind-bending orgasm?

A recent Stanford University study featured in Men’s Health surveyed 10,000 women to ask about their interest in various sexual situations or fantasies, and here’s what the study found:

25% want a threesome with a man and another woman.
81% want a man to use sex toys on them.
47% want to visit a strip club with a man.
40% are ready to make a sex DVD with their man.
72% want to watch porn with their man.
51% want to join the mile-high club with their man.
64% want to have sex with a man in a public place.
43% want to have a secret sexual encounter in an office.
66% want a man to cuff them.
74% want to be spanked during sex.
63% want a man to pull their hair during sex.
80% want to touch themselves while their man watches (and learns).

This list reveals why over 40% of women admit to watching porn or visiting pornographic websites when they’re alone. They want to be able to visualize the risqué activities and fantasies they find so very arousing. This was true for my Just Gotta Say heroine, Callie Davis, who indulges in a little movie watching because she thinks there’s no way her fantasy could ever come to life…

Tune back in tomorrow for more on women’s top sexual fantasies. What’s on your top ten list?

Thanks for reading,
Laura Kaye

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR: A multi-published author of paranormal, contemporary and erotic romance, Laura Kaye’s hot, heartfelt stories are all about the universal desire for a place to belong. Laura is the author of the bestselling contemporary romance Hearts in Darkness and the bestselling and award-nominated paranormal romance Forever Freed. Just Gotta Say is Laura’s third published book, and her fourth, North of Need (Book 1 in the Hearts of the Anemoi Series) releases on November 1. Laura lives in Maryland with her husband, two daughters, and cute-but-bad dog, and appreciates her view of the Chesapeake Bay every day.

GIVEAWAY INFORMATION:

Leave a comment on today's post for a chance to win one of three E-book copies of Just Gotta Say (releases 9/30 from Decadent Publishing. Winners will be chosen by WC on Saturday. The Just Gotta Blog Tour features giveaways at every stop.

27 comments:

heather said...

I knew I couldn't be the only woman in the world to think about sex 24/7, lol. Loved the post today, Laura :)

Tanya said...

Great post and I agree w/Heather's comment :)

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Amanda W. said...

I think Heather spoke for us all! Love the idea for the book too!

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Laura Kaye said...

Yay, Heather! Loved your comment! Sex isn't just for men, after all! *winks*

Tanya--thanks for commenting!

Good luck, guys!

Laura Kaye said...

LOL Amanda! Heather, I think you're a trendsetter here!

Erin said...

What a relief to know I am not the only one.. wow!! Great post and patiently waiting for Laura's new book!
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Anna said...

I'm on team Heather, too. Looks like we're shaping up to be quite a crowd. Can't wait for the new book to come out. Looks hot and I love your writing. ;)

Liz said...

is this the place where I admit to how many of these things I've done? Oh, guess not...sorry!
Nice Post Laura
good luck with your release.
Liz

Laura Kaye said...

Yes, Liz, yes! I'll show mine if you show yours. *winks*

Fun conversation, y'all!

Lea Nolan said...

Awesome post! So looking forward to your release - er, your book release, that is - it's going to be S.E.X.Y!

books4me said...

Yep, Heather's on the ball! Interesting statistics, Laura! We gotta get our men to SEE some of the numbers. Maybe I can accidentally stick a paper with the info in hubby's morning read?! LOL

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Laura Kaye said...

Lea - I can't help but chuckle about you reaction when I first explained this story at Panera! :) Lea's my best friend, guys, and I try to corrupt her a little bit every day!!!

@books4me67 - you totally have to do that, then report back his reaction!!!

:)

heather said...

Why do I feel like I just started a cult?! Lol! Thanks for backing me up yall :)
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Misa said...

If 66% of women want a man to cuff them, does that mean 34% want to cuff their man? :D

metallifan15 said...

I need to find a guy who will do that kind of thing with me one we get to that level. SOme of those facts aren't all that shocking, after all, did Callie not have thoughts about a foursome and get her way? Who else has some sexy skeletons hiding in their closets?? I know I do...but what is not up for discussion.

excellent article Laura. Thnanks for sharing with us.

~Sara
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Laura Kaye said...

I'm having so much fun with you, y'all, and the conversation's just starting! Wait til you see what else I have up my sleeve this week!

The Cult of Heather. Could be, could totally be!

Misa, I totally suspect that's EXACTLY what that stat means!

Sara--you made me laugh, woman! Sexy skeletons, indeed. And I cherish every one of mine! *winks*

elaing8 said...

I fit into some of those categories :) great post.
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Lea Nolan said...

Okay, to underscore Laura's earlier point, she literally had to explain the mechanics of this story. Like, I almost made her draw me a diagram! LOL!!!!

Laura Kaye said...

Good for you, elaing!!!

Yeah, I didn't draw it out for Lea, but I'm pretty sure I used hand gestures!!

bwahaha!

Great comments, everyone!

Anne R said...

Great post. This story sounds great. Can't wait to read the book!

Laura Kaye said...

Yay, Anne! Thanks for stopping by!

pamerd said...

Great post - I am included some of those categories...

The book looks great and I can't wait to read.

Thanks
Pam

tpibrew@msn.com

Laura Kaye said...

Sits down to circle time with Pam, eagerly awaiting her to share MORE, dangit! ;) Glad to have you here!

Lori Z. said...

Interesting stats, but not too surprising really. I do believe that Heather said it best.

The book sounds great:)

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Laura Kaye said...

Lori--you confirmed it! Heather's the trendsetter of the day! ;) Thanks for stopping by to comment!

Good luck everyone! Come back tomorrow for more fantasy fun!

June M. said...

Wonder what the percentage of women who want a threesome with 2 guys would be? And it is definitely nice to find some like-minded people.
June M.
manning_j2004 at yahoo dot com

Laura Kaye said...

Yes, so true, June!